Comments on: How Did He Get Her? – Part 2 http://www.20sup.com/featured/how-did-he-get-her-part-2/ Life in the quarter-life Fri, 02 Dec 2011 21:18:34 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 By: April http://www.20sup.com/featured/how-did-he-get-her-part-2/comment-page-1/#comment-308 April Thu, 29 Apr 2010 13:41:39 +0000 http://www.20sup.com/?p=1020#comment-308 I love your articles on this, but I REALLY need to stress one thing that I see in a totally different light. I cannot STAND it when a guy is chivalrous in the beginning but later does not continue this, so if your advice is to do this to win a girl over then fellas PLEASE don't ever stop! ALWAYS open doors and pull out chairs, and don't just do it for women you date, do it because it's the one thing that the other D'bags out there won't do. Imagine going out to lunch with a female co-worker, pull her chair out - it's a dying breed and you'll be thrwarted to superhero status by doing this and this alone. I go WEAK when a man is polite and chivalrous! It shows you have character, depth and soul!!! I cannot stress this enough! It's not enough to be on your P's and Q's on a first date, NEVER stop being chivalrous and again, make it a part of who you are...there are plenty of times to be cocky, but mix it in with good old fashioned chivalry! A lady (NOT A GIRL) will love this about you and won't take it for granted! Yes, some of us still value good old fashioned manners! I love your articles on this, but I REALLY need to stress one thing that I see in a totally different light. I cannot STAND it when a guy is chivalrous in the beginning but later does not continue this, so if your advice is to do this to win a girl over then fellas PLEASE don’t ever stop! ALWAYS open doors and pull out chairs, and don’t just do it for women you date, do it because it’s the one thing that the other D’bags out there won’t do. Imagine going out to lunch with a female co-worker, pull her chair out – it’s a dying breed and you’ll be thrwarted to superhero status by doing this and this alone. I go WEAK when a man is polite and chivalrous! It shows you have character, depth and soul!!! I cannot stress this enough! It’s not enough to be on your P’s and Q’s on a first date, NEVER stop being chivalrous and again, make it a part of who you are…there are plenty of times to be cocky, but mix it in with good old fashioned chivalry! A lady (NOT A GIRL) will love this about you and won’t take it for granted!

Yes, some of us still value good old fashioned manners!

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