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The Move That Makes Every Guy Melt

By Shanif Dhanani

17 February 2010 485 views 3 Comments

Guys love physical contact.  Shocker, I know.

The first time we put our hand on a girl’s back, our adrenaline is rushing.  Holding her hand makes us warm all over.  And of course, we all know how much guys like other, “special” types of contact.

But if you really want to let a guy know that you feel comfortable around him, just rest your head on his shoulder and smile as you hear his heart beat faster.  You may even hear it skip a beat.

It’s strange.  Something about such a small action can turn us to mush.  I don’t really know what it is – maybe it’s the implicit trust and closeness that’s expressed, maybe it’s the subtle message that’s letting him know she feels safe around him, maybe it’s the fact that he’s the one she turns to when she’s tired.  Regardless of what actually makes our hearts melt when she does this, the end result is that you’ll have a guy that’s a lot more warm and open towards you.

So, the next time you’re watching TV next to your man, go ahead and use his shoulder as a pillow.  Regardless of whether it’s your first date or fiftieth anniversary, he’ll like it.  Guaranteed.

3 Comments »

  • Jahanara said:

    Girls love that moment, too, when the guy loosens his posture enough to let you know he’s comfortable with your head on his shoulder, the warmth of his neck on your ear, the warmth of the quiet. It is heaven.

  • Jahanara said:

    Girls love that moment, too, when the guy loosens his posture enough to let her know he’s comfortable with her head on his shoulder. The warmth of his neck in her ear, the warmth of the quiet–it is heaven.

  • Amreen said:

    Reading this article can be emotionally disturbing for a person, who has never had a chance to feel the warmth of a man’s shoulder.
    Overall an excellent post.

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